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A Wonderful Advantage of Living Abroad? Great Friendships

asian_friendsHere are a few more traveling tips that will make living abroad more fun and meaningful.

Always keep a journal! Your trip will then last forever.

I was reading my journal, and I realize that one of the biggest advantages of all my traveling has been the friendships I have made. Living in another country allows an opportunity for meeting and learning from people of various cultures. I have lived in Ecuador for six years, and before that I visited over 15 different countries. In each country that I’ve visited I’ve made a point to connect with the people who live there, and I’ve always ended up making great friends and learning so much from them.

Give freely without expectation.

(Left) Two friends who live in Guaranda, Ecuador. They have learned Kichwa, and are originally from Korea and Japan, respectively. I have never been to Asia, but in Ecuador I have met several people from this continent.

From my dear Korean friend I have learned that if I give freely without expectation I will receive in many different ways. She is one of the most generous people I know; she gives wholeheartedly. In addition, she always tells me to take care of my health because with good health I will be able to help others.

She has also taught me how to do a body cleanse every year and eat healthy every day. I definitely have a lot more energy because of this practice, so she is a great influence.

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Study hard. Your efforts will pay off.

From my Japanese friend I have learned that it truly pays to study hard. Since coming to Ecuador I’ve learned to fluently speak Spanish and Kichwa. That was not easy, but my friend was very helpful. She speaks seven languages and started learning Kichwa the same time that I did. In watching her I realize that if I put forth the effort, I will be blessed. She learns new languages in order to help others, and that has inspired me to remain committed so that I can do the same for someone else.

Learn about tradition and culture.

cooking_humitasAn Ecuadorian family tradition is making humitas. It takes the entire family all day to make them. When visiting a friend (far left) that lives in the northern part of Ecuador in a city called Atuntaqui, we made humitas.

When making humitas, first you have to grind the corn. This is done manually and requires a lot of strength, so this is what the men do all morning. When they finish the women gather in the kitchen to mix the ingredients and stuff the corn husks.

I loved being a part of this tradition because it is a time when the whole family is together, talking and laughing. A big part of the Ecuadorian culture is the closeness of family. The house is always filled with grandchildren, in-laws, and a lot of noise.

Even though I am from another country every time I visit I am instantly made to feel like a part of the family; this usually means a lot of eating! I have learned the importance of family from these experiences, and that no matter how far they are from me, to stay close to them and keep sharing in their lives.

Be willing to learn from all age groups.

Not all of my friends are adults. Children are wonderful to have in your life, and I have learned to relax, have fun, and be patient from them. They have their own problems, but they see the positive side of everything. I like inviting children over to my house just to play (those are my stuffed animals that you see in the photo below!).

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Lastly…

Open your mind to new experiences!

It is so nice to meet people from all over the world because it helps us to open our minds. I encourage everyone to be open to new experiences and listen to others as they share their experiences. At the end of the day, you will have gained some great lasting friendships.

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erika_writer[shhine]Erika is the Travel Contributor for the Phoenix Rising Collective. She is an English as a Foreign Language Teacher, who lives in Cuenca, Ecuador. To express her passion for sharing her traveling and cultural experiences, she shares a verse from her spiritual practice, “Jehovah himself gives the saying; the women telling the good news are a large army.”(Psalm 68:11) Furthermore, “why should women travel the world? Learning about women of all different cultures all around the world helps us to become connected and understand ourselves better. Many women around the world don’t understand their true worth, we must help and love each other.”

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My European Excursion: The Courage to Act Outside My Box

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If you’ve followed my last two posts Wanderlust and Spring into ACTION: Tips for Unleashing Your Creativity and Unearthing Your Ideas, you’ve noticed that I am doing exactly what I’ve encouraged others to do:

  • Pursue your passion.
  • Try something different.
  • Think outside of your box…Act outside of your box…Get rid of the box!

My passion is to travel, read, create art, teach, learn, and love. In many ways, my statement sounds a bit utopian, but that’s okay – go with it!

Instead of writing an article this month I have chosen to share photos that I have taken over the past two months of my European excursion. Mind you, I have hundreds of photos, but this slideshow is a collection of some of my most meaningful moments. Purposely, I have not labeled the photos. I wanted the pictures to speak for themselves. You will see homelessness, security, children, futball, lots of water, monuments, sunsets, the Pyrenees Mountains, art on the sidewalk and buildings, crowds of people, Love Locks on the Seine Bridge, food, musicians, dancers, and more.

The five places I visited:

  • Paris, France
  • Florence, Italy and the outskirts (Residence of Gavillaccio – my sister’s resort)
  • Marseille, France
  • Pau, France
  • San Sebastián, Spain

If you have questions, feel free to ask. I hope you enjoy!

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traci_currie_profile[photo]Traci Currie is the Art + Creativity contributor for the Phoenix Rising Collective. She is a Communication and Visual Arts lecturer at University of Michigan-Flint, as well as a knit-crochet artist, writer, and spoken word performer. She has been a part of the art world for over 15 years as an art gallery board member; spoken word series organizer for five years; performer, nationally and internationally; and published poet. She believes the PRC will help young women reach their highest potential. “This organization is about empowering women to take ownership of their lives, claim their identities and be the positive change they wish to see in the world they live.” Read her latest posts here.

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“Summer, Summer, Summertime” Style Trends: Wearing what makes you feel beautiful

michelle_obama_quote[poster]Photo Credit: contemporary closet design by Miami architect Weber Design Group, Inc.

Sometimes it feels like we wait until summer to break the monotony of everyday life. It’s a season filled with vacations, barbecues, family reunions, weddings, pool parties, and different efforts to balance outdoor activities with staying cool.

One thing’s certain; the hot weather shouldn’t stop you from looking good, enjoying your own body, and adorning it with your favorite styles. Whether you’re working, sitting back and unwinding, or driving “two miles an hour so everybody sees you” – there are a ton of summertime styles to delve into. This month we want to share some of our personal must-haves with you!

Prints! Prints! And More Prints!

This is the perfect season to show off your colorful prints. Right now, you can find shirts, shorts, pants, leggings, dresses, and shoes in a multitude of them. Whether you shop at your local thrift stores (like we often do) or at high-end boutiques, prints are everywhere! Trending this summer? Tribal, floral, and animal prints. Here’s a great example on Funmi (below); she’s wearing a beautiful mint green sundress with pale pink and yellow floral print for those casual summer days on the go!

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Not your Mama’s Shorts… or are They?

High-waisted shorts are here to stay! They first hit the scene in the 40s, came back in the 80s, and now they’re here today, so it’s safe to say two things: (1) fashion almost always becomes fashionable again, and (2) high-waisted shorts are awesome.

Aisha’s favorite high-waisted shorts are actually her mom’s shorts from the 90s. But whether you inherit them from your mama, thrift them (most likely they once belonged to someone else’s mama), or you buy them new from a store you love, you’re going to look stylish with a pair of them on.

Crop Tops

Show your tummy some sunny loving and wear a crop top! One on-trend summer look that we enjoy involves a crop top and high-waisted shorts or a maxi skirt. Bandeau tops also create fun styles, as they can be worn by themselves, under tank tops, or sheer tops with any kind of bottom.

Maxi Skirts and Dresses

Our other faves? Maxi skirts and dresses, of course. Maxi skirts and dresses allow you to feel fully covered while also helping you keep cool in lighter fabric. You can pair your maxi skirt with an easy, breezy summer shirt and throw on a pair of cute sandals or heels! And if you like maxi skirts/dresses and really love bold colors, you can wear something like Funmi’s strapless, cobalt blue maxi dress shown below:

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Body Positivity

Whatever style trends you choose to embrace this summer, make sure that…

You feel good about what you’re wearing.

You know or are getting to know your own personal style. Like everything, style is also about knowing yourself, so find out what you like by experimenting with different looks. Additionally, it is nice to consult with friends about those highlighter green cut-off shorts you want to buy, but at the end of the day, you’re the one who will be wearing them. Your life is not an episode of What Not to Wear.

You make your own rules. Don’t let anybody dictate what you wear because it doesn’t “look good” on your body type. Wear what makes you feel beautiful and comfortable. Yes, throw on that crop top no matter how big or small your belly. We’re not out here sporting our crop tops and bustiers with six packs and flat bellies. And as one of our Twitter followers @awkward_duck says, “you will deal!”

You are physically comfortable. “Booty” shorts are nice, but make sure you can breathe in them!

You create trends. We know that YOU know what looks good! Visit your local thrift store or your mom’s closet so that you’re not spending too much money trying to become a fashionista!

The most important thing to remember about dressing for summer is: Do YOU! And remember that it is HOT, so give the sun a run for her money!

simone_picks[1]Other top picks for Simone: bright cut-off shorts; maxi dresses; crop tanks; and floral bustiers. Simone found her favorite flowy print skirt at a local thrift store, and we guess you can say it has ALL the prints!

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Other top style picks for Aisha: tribal print crop tops and patterned pants

Oh, one more thing! Check out our friend, Tareya; owner of the virtual clothing boutique The Vault Vintage. She has some great merchandise at amazing prices! You can also follow The Vault Vintage on Instagram and Twitter for updates on new items.

We’d love to hear what’s in your closet this summer!

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Aisha + Simone are the Life + Style contributors for the Phoenix Rising Collective; continue supporting their posts on the importance of letting who you are shine through when it comes to self-care and defining your personal style. Here are more of their how-tos, anecdotes, and words of inspiration.

AISHA_BLOG[PHOTO]Aisha Upton is a first year PhD student at the University of Pittsburgh, studying Sociology and Women’s Studies. Her research interests: Black women in service organizations and violence against Black women. She is passionate about many things including community service, lipstick, baking, thrifting, knitting, and being a proud owner of a Cockapoo, Napoleon. At the intersection of being a diligent student, a fashionista, and an activist – you will find Aisha, attempting to find a balance.

 

simone_writer[shine]Simone Savannah is an English instructor and contributing writer for the Project on the History of Black Writing at the University of Kansas. She is currently pursuing a PhD in English-Creative Writing and Women, Gender, & Sexuality Studies. Her poetry is based on personal experiences she can’t let go—imagined or otherwise. Simone also enjoys making green smoothies, attending Bikram Yoga classes, and laughing uncontrollably.

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